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  Why Nervous System Healing Matters More Than Mindset For years, we have been told that change begins with positive thinking. “Think positive.” “Change your mindset.” “Focus on good thoughts.” But for many people, this advice doesn’t work — and instead creates frustration, guilt, and emotional exhaustion. If positive thinking hasn’t helped you heal, it does not mean you are doing something wrong. It means your nervous system may not feel safe yet . Modern psychology and neuroscience now show that mindset work only becomes effective after nervous system regulation . The nervous system responds to safety, not positivity The human brain does not react directly to situations. It reacts to perceived threat or safety . Before logic, before reasoning, before mindset — the nervous system asks one essential question: “Am I safe right now?” If the answer is no, the body automatically enters survival mode. This response is unconscious and involuntary. When the nervous system ...