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Parenting is often glorified, but what lies beneath the surface of many homes is far from ideal. In this heartfelt piece, I share a raw reflection on how unresolved emotional dynamics between couples can deeply impact the lives of their children — often in invisible but lasting ways. This isn’t about blame — it’s about awareness, healing, and truth. Who Actually Ends Up Suffering? We grow up believing this one big myth: That parents know it all. That they always know what’s right and wrong. That they are flawless, like God. But here’s the truth — and it might sting: Parents are not God. They don’t always know what to do. They don’t always make the right choices. In fact, many times, they’re just figuring things out themselves… confused, lost, and sometimes emotionally wounded. I know these words might hurt. But be honest with yourself — isn't this true? Look around. How many parents do you see who are truly open  to understanding, communicating, accepting, learning, growing, or eve...

  Understanding Passive Aggression Disorder: Causes, Signs & Healing Have you ever met someone who seems calm on the outside — smiling, polite, even cooperative — but something feels... off? Maybe their words are clipped, their responses sarcastic, or they quietly sabotage tasks. You might be witnessing Passive Aggression  in action. Let’s explore what Passive Aggression Disorder really is, why it happens, and — most importantly — how it can be healed.   What Is Passive Aggression Disorder? Some people experience intense anger but don’t show it outwardly. Instead of expressing it directly, they suppress  it. They smile, act pleasant, and pretend nothing’s wrong — while their resentment builds up quietly. But what happens to that bottled-up anger? Often, it sneaks out indirectly — through short, dry responses like “Yes.” “No.” “Whatever.”  or through sarcasm, avoidance, or passive resistance. Sometimes, they delay tasks intentionally or rely on others to conf...

               Here are five common "evils of the mind" that can lead to negative thoughts or behaviors: Greed : An insatiable desire for more, whether it's wealth, power, or possessions, often at the expense of others. Jealousy : A toxic emotion that can lead to resentment and anger, often stemming from a comparison to others and a fear of inadequacy. Hatred : An intense aversion or hostility towards individuals or groups, which can fuel violence and discrimination. Fear : While a natural emotion, excessive fear can lead to paranoia, anxiety, and avoidance, distorting perception and limiting potential. Pride : An inflated sense of self-importance can create a barrier to personal growth, hinder relationships, and foster a lack of empathy. These "evils" can manifest in various ways, affecting both individuals and society as a whole. Addressing them can lead to personal and collective growth. The "evils of the mind" can significantly impact our live...