The Window When we’re ten or twelve years old, it feels as if this — this is the whole world. The walls of our home, the narrow lanes nearby, the shop at the corner, the familiar faces, family, relatives, and schoolyard friends — we believe they’ll stay forever. We believe we will too. Then a day arrives — school ends, college begins, and some friends are left behind. That’s when we learn: not everyone walks beside us for long. Yet home… the streets… the shops… those familiar faces — they’re still there, aren’t they? Our heart insists, these things never change. But then, another day comes — the day we leave it all behind. The home, the lanes, the faces once our world, all left miles and memories away. And from the window of a room in a distant city, we sit and think — how far that little child has come. We find a new city, a new house, new streets, new shops, but those faces — they’re nowhere to be found. And the ones we left behind are no longer...
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